I don’t advise not to react. I advise to understand how we use language. I’m not a linguist, and there are many good books dealing with the subject. We react to language for the same reason our bodies
react to chemicals. Our bodies are made out of chemicals, and our minds are, also, made out of words.
Once we see that, we realize that to understand ourselves we need to understand words. If one sees that clearly, the search takes a different direction. I’m not qualified to take anyone step by step on that road. I’m just acting as road sign.